When I Stopped Controlling The Best Happened for Me

Recently, I stepped into a new role as an event security officer.

It may sound like a simple part-time job. But for me, it became a deep lesson in trust, surrender, and witnessing how life rearranges itself when I don’t panic.

I want to share what happened because every time I chose to trust instead of react, something better unfolded.

 

1. The Pants Incident “From “Maybe I’ll Be Rejected” to VVIP Access”

There was a moment I thought I might lose an event opportunity. I was told my pants were “not suitable.” In that instant, the mind could have spiraled — embarrassment, defensiveness, fear of being dropped. But I didn’t fight it. I simply replied: “I noted your feedback. I’ll wait for the next arrangement.”

Worst case? I get turned down. I stayed neutral. And then something unexpected happened.

Instead of being rejected, I was reassigned to backstage with a static post.

For the first time, I had access to all the VVIPs. If I had reacted emotionally, tried to defend myself, or insisted on being right would this have happened?

 

2. Seeing “QRT” Beside My Name “From Fear to Support”

Another time, I saw my name listed under QRT (Quick Response Team). From what I understood, QRT means running around handling incidents during the event.

My first thought? “So lucky me… with zero experience.”

Fear tried to come in. But I paused and called in my belief: “Universe only sends me what I can handle.” The moment I anchored into that belief, my body calmed down. The fear didn’t control me. And then miracle again. I was paired with an APO, someone with authority and experience. The entire event went smoothly.

I didn’t have to prove myself. I didn’t have to struggle. I was supported.

3. When I Wasn’t Chosen “Something Better Chose Me”

There were also events I applied for but wasn’t picked. Old me might have felt rejected. But this time, I stayed open.

Then something interesting happened, someone (almost like an angel) contacted me about another event. I simply asked, “Is there availability?” That one question linked me up and I got the job.

If I had stayed silent, that opportunity wouldn’t have moved toward me. 

P/S: This angel was someone I speak with during my first event.

 

What This Experience Taught Me

These few weeks taught me something deeper than just event security work.

They reminded me how life works when I stop fighting it.

1. Stay Neutral

Not everything that looks “bad” is bad.

Not everything that looks “good” is good.

When I don’t label too quickly, life rearranges.

2. Trust That I’m Only Given What I Can Handle

When I anchor into this belief, fear softens.

I show up differently.

And support appears.

3. Flow With Situations

Instead of resisting or overthinking, I allow the moment to unfold.

Flow does not mean being passive.

It means responding without panic.

 

4. Open Your Mouth

Ask.

The chances increase the moment you speak.

If you keep quiet, what you want cannot come to you.

5. Listen and Speak Without Needing to Prove

When I stopped trying to prove myself;

No drama.

No unnecessary tension.

Just peace, moment to moment.

6. Allow

Angel are everywhere, allow the connection, allow the support, simply allow.

 

Thank you. Wish you enjoy your miracle in life.